Paperless Post is strong on design: envelopes, liners, backdrops and a very large catalogue. For a UK wedding, three things send couples looking elsewhere: it charges per guest, the pricing page we could check lists dollars, and separate invitations per event are not described.
Written by the Vow&Kin team. We only list what each provider documents on its own website, and we say where another service is the better choice.
If your guest list is small and the envelope design matters most, Paperless Post may still be the right choice. Choose Vow&Kin for one price per wedding, day and evening guests on their own invitations, menu choices per person for the caterer, or family abroad. At the lowest cost, Invitea's free plan already includes household links and meal choices.
Vow and Kin compared with Paperless Post
Feature
Vow&Kin
Paperless Post
Pricing model
€59, €119 or €349 once per wedding
Per guest on the US pricing page: Free $0, Basic $0.50, Premium $1.05, All Access $1.44. Pro: $250 a year for 250 guests
100 guests
The same one-off price: €59 on Signature or €119 on Complete
$0 to $144 depending on the feature set, $105 on Premium. The first 50 sends are free on the free feature set
Prices in pounds
Visitors in the UK see and pay prices in pounds
Not checked: we could only read the US pricing page
Day and evening guests
On Complete each household sees only the events it is invited to
Separate invitations per event are not described on the pricing page
RSVP
Per person and per event: menu choices, allergies, accessibility needs, children by age group and your own questions. CSV export from Signature, kitchen summary on Complete
Guest questions and RSVP tracking on the paid feature sets
Languages
40+ invitation languages
Primarily English product experience
Guest delivery
Private household links you share by WhatsApp, Viber or your own text messages, a QR-ready link, and email sending by Vow&Kin on Complete
Email, text message and shareable link
Catalogue
9 curated Signature designs
Large established catalogue
Checked 15 October 2026: every price on the provider's own website, features on the pages listed under Sources.
Where Vow&Kin wins
One price per wedding, not per guest
Prices in pounds for visitors in the UK
Day guests and evening guests on their own invitations (Complete)
40+ invitation languages for family abroad
Menu choice per person, with a kitchen summary for the caterer (Complete)
Private household links to share by WhatsApp, Viber, your own text messages or email
Where Paperless Post wins
A much larger catalogue, with designer collaborations
Envelope, liner and backdrop styling
Free for the first 50 sends on the free feature set
Invitations for every kind of event, not only weddings
Who should choose what
Small guest list, design comes first
Paperless Post. Its catalogue is much larger than ours.
Day guests and evening guests
Vow&Kin Complete, where each household sees only its events. For a simple day and evening split, Invitea Premium (£9.99 one-off) or Bridebook's free website (All-day or Evening-only per guest) also work.
You only want to pay once, in pounds
Vow&Kin or Invitea.
Big guest list, small budget
Invitea's free plan or Bridebook. Per-guest pricing adds up fastest on a long list.
Family abroad or a bilingual wedding
Vow&Kin, with 40+ invitation languages on Complete.
What you get
Here is what Vow&Kin looks like.
These are real screenshots of the builder and the planning tools, taken in our demo workspace with sample names.
1
A builder where you can change everything
Start from a finished design, then change any section: its artwork, background, colours, type and spacing. The phone preview shows exactly what each household will see.
2
Your own song, cut to the moment
Upload a song, choose the 20 to 30 seconds that matter and add a fade. Only that short clip is uploaded; your file stays on your device.
3
Replies that turn into a seating plan
Answers are kept per person and per event, with menu choices and dietary needs. Drag guests to tables, print the plan and export a CSV for your venue.
Uploaded music and the seating planner are part of Complete and Concierge.
The short verdict
Choose Paperless Post when the card design matters most and the guest list is small. Choose Vow&Kin when you want one price per wedding, day and evening guests on their own invitations and menu answers the caterer can use.
Competitor features and prices can change. The provider's own website is always the reference.
Questions couples ask
Is Paperless Post free for weddings?+
Its free feature set covers the first 50 sends. Above that, or for paid features such as envelopes and guest questions, you pay per guest: $1.05 each on Premium, according to the US pricing page on 15 October 2026.
How much does Paperless Post cost for 100 guests?+
Between $0 and $144, depending on the feature set, and $105 on Premium. Paperless Pro costs $250 a year for 250 guests.
Does Paperless Post charge in pounds?+
We could not confirm it. We could only check the US pricing page, which lists dollars.
Can I invite evening guests separately?+
Yes on Vow&Kin Complete, where each household sees only the events it is invited to. Invitea Premium offers separate day and evening invitations, and Bridebook lets you mark each guest All-day or Evening-only.
Does Vow&Kin have per-guest fees?+
No. It is one price per wedding, whatever the guest count: €59, €119 or €349.
What if Vow&Kin turns out not to be right for us?+
Building and previewing are free, so you can see the invitation on your own phone first. If you buy a plan and change your mind, we refund it in full within 14 days, no questions asked.
Compare the guest experience, not only the feature list.
Build your invitation free and open the preview on your own phone. If it does not feel right for your wedding, you have spent nothing.